How Attention Follows Affection

attention, affection, discipline, diligence, idolatryChances are, whatever and whoever we care for will get the majority of our time and effort on a daily basis.  Simply put, without constraints (and we’ll talk about those), we are apt to spend most of our time thinking about what we like and doing what we like.

This is not automatically a bad thing but, if we aren’t careful, it can have a negative impact on our relationship with the Lord and on our daily walk with Him.  Here’s what Jesus had to say on the subject:

for where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.  Matthew 6:21 (NASB)

Simple, isn’t it?  Our heart (and when the Bible talks about the heart it is really talking about the seat of our will, our focus, and our desire) will go to whatever or whoever we “treasure”.  If we practice and work on treasuring our Lord by getting closer to Him and walking in His ways then that is where our heart will be.  But if we allow ourselves to begin to treasure a thing or a person by placing undo focus and desire on that thing or person then we are practicing a form of idolatry and God will not be glorified in us until we make it right.

Let’s go back to those constraints we talked about in the first paragraph and here is one that I am going to use as an example.  As much as we might not enjoy working for a living sometimes one of the benefits of a full-time job is that it (ideally) keeps us engaged in doing something productive and useful for society.  Otherwise, some of us might find all kinds of ways to let our hearts and minds wander into places that they should not be.

Another useful and good constraint should be the people around us; our families and friends.  (I say “should” because we as Christians should be surrounding ourselves with those who can help to keep us straight and not those who would be a negative influence)  When we focus on building Godly relationships within our churches, families and friendship circles we place a layer of protection from sinful thoughts and activities around ourselves in the process.

Finally, we need to be very familiar with two important “D” words; discipline and diligence.  Ultimately our greatest battles will be battles of the mind and heart against our sinful natures and how our sin nature will always want the opposite of what our new, spiritual nature needs.  We need the discipline to choose to do the right things and discipline, like muscles, must be built with repetition and care.

As an example, I have committed to reading the Bible through over the next year.  I have a guide that I am using with selected passages every morning and while some mornings I am very excited to see what God’s word says other mornings, I confess, I am less so.  My flesh resists disciplined reading of the Bible every day and I have to struggle to overcome that knowing that in doing so, there will be a very positive outcome.

This is where diligence comes in because we must be diligent about maintaining our disciplines.  Just like a muscle will atrophy if not used so will our discipline if we cease to practice it.  But if we diligently guard our minds and practice our disciplined walk with God then we can overcome those sinful desires and make sure that our affection and attention are going towards the right thing.

P.S. – The photo I found for today’s post was titled by the photographer “Take My Heart”.  In light of the topic I found it to be wholly appropriate.  In the end, who or what will take our hearts?

Defining Identity: The Truth About Who We Really Are

identity, affection, hobbiesAs it does with many boys, my fascination with the automobile started early.  I remember going on a two-week vacation with my family to the Grand Canyon when I was around ten years old and during that trip I can vividly remember starting to notice all of the different makes and models of cars on the road around me for the first time.  I noticed their shapes and proportions, their colors and especially the way they looked as they traversed the roads around my families camper-shell pickup that was our vacation vehicle that year.  By the end of the trip I had even began to memorize which company made what car based only on a quick look at a certain car as it went by.  For some reason I enjoyed this process and to some degree, I still do.

As I got a little bit older and a little bit more interested in the cars around me, I started gravitating towards books and magazines that talked about them and discussed them in detail.  I had conversations with my friends about them and even found some local kindred spirits in my church youth group who were driving and restoring old Mustangs.  Needless to say, I was very enthusiastic about what they were doing and it wasn’t too long before my Dad and I had purchased our own Mustang project car to work on (a 68 coupe).

This fascination with the automobile and appreciation of all of the work that goes in to each different type has only gotten stronger over time.  I would go so far as to say that it is one of my favorite topics and at this point in my life I would readily identify myself as a “car-person”.  And as a “car-person” I actively seek out other car people in real life and on the internet to see and hear about their projects and about the vehicles that they are driving and enjoying.  Coming in to this year, being a car person had become a strong part of my identity.  And the Lord started to speak to me about that, and what that meant for me.

As a child of God, my real identity is that of a blood-washed, born-again saint.  The Bible says it is not I who live, but Christ who lives in me.  My flesh and its desires are to be crucified and put to death and my first and greatest love must always be Jesus.  So I had to ask myself some hard questions.  Do I seek out my brothers and sisters in Christ, because of our shared identity, as readily as I do car people?  Do I want to hear their testimonies and learn about what God is doing in their lives as much as I want to know what it feels like to drive the new Shelby GT350 Mustang?  Hmmm.  The fact of the matter is, there shouldn’t even be a comparison here.  Jesus is always better than _______!  (fill in the blank with whatever it is that you love the most).

We all have our own likes and dislikes.  We all have those things that put a sparkle in our eye and that we naturally gravitate towards.  Hobbies and past-times can be good, constructive things if they are used in the way that God intended and are kept in subjection to His authority and will for our lives.  But our identities should never be tied up in things of this earth.  Be it a career or trade, a title or position, a possession or a hobby or anything else that isn’t Christ Jesus.  We are so much better than that!

God made us to be His children, joint heirs with our Savior, inheritors of every spiritual blessing and the abundant life that can be had when we live and walk in His Spirit.  When we tie our identities to earthly things and let them define us, we settle for less than God intended.  I urge you not to make that mistake.  Be very sure of what defines you and where your identity lies.  And if you aren’t sure, ask God.  He will help you to see and to understand with just what it means to be a child of the one true King.